The more mature a man is, the fewer people he has to blame inside

2022-08-01 0 By

People in this life, are gradually from tender to mature, from a piece of white paper to coated with colorful, with the growth of age, color is more and more rich, the heart is more and more complex, in their own every time think they are about to mature, just realize that they are always so naive.Despite big good big evil people, for the ordinary people, it is difficult to use a thing or with a word let oneself mature, eat and drink pull scatter, daily trifles, it occupies a person too much space, so that in a long period of time, forget the original pursue, don’t remember once, enjoy a placid life trivial.In this state, will let a lot of people mistakenly think that their heart mature, and everything is not over, as a result, the reality is very face, as long as encounter a small thing different from usual, or just because of a not quite listen to the words, it is likely to break this calm, let a person depressed for many days.Depressed at the same time, will be accompanied by a complain, the heart began to blame for many parties, or that a lack of respect for themselves, others or that some people should be at some point see themselves, or hate someone not grateful, because they have been to some of his care or help, so the heart no longer balance, no peace.This sometimes really has nothing to do with age, age is not big, but can understand a lot of truth, someone age a lot, but not necessarily knows a lot, we often say to the perspective-taking, a real mature man, is can do it, and it happened that someone can’t do that, they only recognize favorable, for others is to have another set of theory, can say is a wide view themselves, strict in law of the people.Find fault with others can pick a lot of, or very good gossip, gossiping, gossip, no matter what is said, one thing is certain, that is to oneself there is absolutely no any wrong, say he needs help, I feel should be unconditional to help others, if not to help are SINS, but don’t want to is likely to be more than he need someone to help each other.When a person is truly mature, he can realize that everyone has his own difficulties, and he may not understand other people’s life, nor can he understand what other people want and need, and can not take it for granted that other people’s energy is unlimited, other people’s time is in leisure.One really mature, resentment will be less and less, the men of his own heart to blame is less and less, because a real mature man, can understand almost all people, because everyone is not easy, behind the seemingly smiling, may be tears in paving the way, are more willing to believe that a lot of people are to be good, stepped in to help himself, be grateful,No hand to help, there must be someone else sufficient reason, so, how will add trouble……